One great thing from last year’s birthday that I WAS able to preserve this year was having brunch with two of my besties, including Neighbor. I checked off a minor bucket list item of finally trying an açaí bowl. It did not disappoint.

And, Neighbor got me two of my favorite guilty pleasures:

That evening, since my Grand Band Plan didn’t work out, I invited friends to hang out at a restaurant. Here’s the good, the bad, and the ugly (not in that order):
I opened the restaurant door on my foot, thus cutting my toe. I’ll spare you yet another foot injury pic. It didn’t bleed or hurt much, so whatever, but it wasn’t a terrific start to the night.
To the 20-something waitress who showed us to our table, I said, “I like your nose ring. I thought about getting one too, [note to readers: not seriously. Just making conversation.] but I do Jiu-Jitsu, so I’d have to take it in and out before and after each class.”
“Oh, yeah, and they close up so quickly,” she said. “That’s awesome you do Jiu-Jitsu. So did my mom.”
And just like that, I go from relating to a 20-something to being compared to her mom, which, to be fair, is more accurate.
We were given two outdoor tables: numbers 9 and 10, which I thought appropriate, since my birthday was 9/10. 🙂
Our time at the restaurant was pleasant, and the weather was unnoticeable, which is to say, it was perfect. I was surprised that many friends gave me cards. Here are a couple (slideshow) from a fellow pun-lover and a friend who also appreciates the joy of randomness:
After our drinks and french fries (we’d eaten dinner with the kids earlier–fish tacos at Rubios), Hubby and I took the scenic route up and down the parking garage looking for our car. When we initially parked, we did so near a friend and started talking with him immediately rather than taking note of our parking space. He left the restaurant a half hour before us, so walking closely behind him, acting as though we knew exactly where we were heading, was not an option.
Lo and behold, when the object of our vehicular search was at last in site, the bottom of one of my shoes fell off.

The shoes hurt to the point where I had considered walking barefoot through the garage, anyway, but didn’t because, eww. I was more relieved for an excuse to get rid of them than anything else. So, aside from walking the rest of the way with one step higher than the other, I’ll consider that a win. Good riddance, evil shoes.
Now, backing up to earlier in the day, my girls had festooned the house with festive streamers and creative displays of plants.

Creative Hubby had gone to Lowe’s and picked up a paint sample of each person in the family’s favorite color, had them write a note to me on it, then tied them together with string.
Ten points for thoughtfulness right? Feel free to steal this idea.
And when I came home from Jiu-Jitsu, I walked into my room to find this:

He also enabled me to broaden my salt-tooth horizons by getting me these:

But since I’m not ALL salty, I’ll end with this story.
Every once in a while we hear the ice cream truck ambling down the main street our cul de sac is attached to. It occurred to me that I have never gotten ice cream from an ice cream truck; therefore, bucket list, obviously.
I mentioned this to Hubby, so when we heard the music down yonder on August 31, he asked if I wanted to go get some ice cream.
“No,” I said. “Not yet. It’s not even my birthday month. I want to hold out.”
“Okay.” He shrugged.
On September 10, when I was drying Little Joe off after his bath, (It may have been my birthday, but I’m still a mom.) Hubby called down the hallway that he heard the ice cream truck.
“Hurry!” I said to Joe. “We gotta get you dressed! The ice cream truck!”
There may be no better way to motivate a five-year-old to get a move on.
We ran, en masse, down our street, me pumping my fist as I yelled to my bewildered neighbor in his front yard, “Ice cream truck on my birthday!”
We chased that puppy down, then waited for the four barefoot, age-appropriate youngsters to purchase their treats before we ordered our own.
Just as the ice cream man started his engine to move on, Hubby said, “Do you want to get a picture?”
“Oooh! Yes!”
I knocked on the window, and the man shut off the engine. I apologized and explained my whole [insanity] wanting to get ice cream from an ice cream truck on my birthday because I never had before, and I can’t believe he’s actually here, etc. etc. and would he mind a picture?

Not only did he come to the window to indulge me for the picture, he gave me a free ice cream and wished me a happy birthday.
Day officially made.
Now how can I top this next year?
I can’t help but notice the similarity between Snyder’s Twisted and Dot’s, which of course started the whole craze in the first place. I may no longer be a Dakotan, but I’ve still got Dakota Pride. BACK OFF, SNYDER’S IMITATORS!
I’m glad you were able to find your car. I once spent 30 minutes scouring a parking garage in Portland because I’d forgotten where I parked. Talk about a Seinfeld moment!
Happy belated birthday, by the way.
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I saw Dot’s “on sale” for $7(!) and I was tempted. I totally thought of you. I had chosen my flavor and had it in my hand, but then I was like, “Seriously? $7 for a bag of pretzels. Can they really be THAT good?” So I put it back. Maybe I made a bad call, but I’ll have to look for them elsewhere, preferably a place where I have a gift card.
I was reminded of the time you were on the date from hell and the fat granny made you walk everywhere looking for her car in the rain when she had actually parked on the other side of the shopping center.
And thanks.
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The answer is yes. They ARE that good.
You have a great memory! Oh, the infamous tattooed granny lives on in infamy apparently forever.
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I saw them at the store again yesterday. $8 this time. (And such a tiny bag!) Maybe for your birthday I’ll buy them.
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And poor granny. I hope she’s okay somehow. So sad.
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Ah, thirty minutes is nothin’, honey… 😆
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Great post to begin my day! Happy day to you.
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Thanks, Jaya! 🙂
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Happy Birthday, Betsy!
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Thanks, tref! 🙂
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That is a nice frame with sticks in it. Wonder how much blood, sweat, and tears went into it….or was it sweat, sawdust, and glue….
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Hope the sweat doesn’t loosen the glue…
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I’m sure your family will come up with something
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Ha! Thanks, Sheree. 🙂
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You’re very welcome
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I don’t think you’ll be able to top this birthday, Betsy. I’m happy you had a special day. I love the “love notes” tied together on a string…so sweet!
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Thank you, Jill! No ducks, but… well… I made do. 😉
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all in all, a wonderful birthday after all! and Chex mix!
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Very true, Beth. 🙂
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See—there was a reason for the whole band debacle. Sounds like you had a wonderful, wonderful birthday to me. Happy belated!!!
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Thank you, Mae! 🙂
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Love, love, love this post! How have you never gotten a treat from an ice cream truck? Didn’t you grow up near me? I cracked up at the picture. I think Ice Cream Man wasn’t thrilled, but put up with you! Lol!
“Get a move on” omg, I love that phrase, but haven’t heard it in years. Maybe because it’s something my MOM said?? Bahahaha…..too funny about the girl at the restaurant!
Your family is Uber creative. My hubby would be thrilled to see those are SW paint cards, so now I’m totally stealing this idea for his birthday next year. Happy Belated to you!
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I’m glad to hear someone will steal the paint cards idea, Bijoux! Your hubby’s a fan of SW paint, huh? I hope he loves your use of them too! 🙂
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The birch tree rack is great. How clever of your husband. As for going from relating to a 20-something only to be compared to her mom, that stings. What’s worse is the first time someone tells you that you remind them of their grandma. That about killed me in my tracks. A grandma, me? No stinking way…
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Hubby told the story recently of a kindergartner going up to a teacher and saying, “Your old and fat just like my grandmother. You’re adorable!” and gave the teacher a hug. SOMEHOW the teacher thought this exchange was wonderful and shared it with everyone. I probably would’ve wanted to drop kick the kid.
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HA! Little twerp…
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The first time an attractive young man calls you “ma’am” is also something of a milestone… 😆
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Ana, only just found this comment and another above to Mark in my Spam folder. I need to remember to check that every so often. It’s not the first time real people have wound up there. Anyhow, I reached the “ma’am” milestone quite a while ago. Sigh. Thanks for commenting! 🙂
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‘S okay, happens to all of us. Thanks for the reminder to check mine too. 👌
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What a great birthday! Your husband wins Husband Trophy for your birthday gift ideas and the kids seem to be learning well from him! What a beautiful day PIF!
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Thanks, CM! I must admit I was very impressed.
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It sounds like you had a wonderful day after all, Betsy. All those thoughtful cards and gifts to know how much you’re loved. ❤
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Thank you, Peach. [inserting the blushing emoji here, if I were on my phone]
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I think that birthday sounds better than the musical one with musicians who aren’t reliable. My shoe broke the other day, but Gorilla Glue fixed it like new. It survived a dog chewing on it, so I figured it was a survivor.
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Wow, that shoe IS a survivor! These shoes were so old and uncomfortable, I was glad to be rid of them. Now you’re making me feel sliiiiiightly guilty that maybe I could’ve still saved them, but it’s too late now, so my conscience remains clear. 😉
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No! If they weren’t comfy, dump them! Mine were my favorites
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Oh good. Phew! I feel better. And I’m so glad you were able to resuscitate your favorites!
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Love this! And of course with the ice cream truck, you also get music so its SORTA like having a band. Well, not at all but with your amazing attitude, it could work.
And the rest sounds wonderful, except the foot injury and shoes. And as always, thank you for the extra effort to dig the shoes out of the garbage can! A gift just for us — but it’s your birthday!
Happy birthday my dear friend!
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I DID get music on my birthday! You’re so right, Wynne. And, all things considered, it was the best kind of music. That the truck came back on my actual birthday was a special kind of gift.
Opening the door on my foot was such a dork move–I had to share. No real harm done, just, sheesh, Betsy, mind your foot!
Thank you for appreciating my garbage rescue work. 🙂
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A special kind of gift – exactly! And because the ice cream truck doesn’t come by every day, it’s a nice little surprise.
Good thing that no real harm was done by the door – but those foot injuries hurt!!
But all in all, sounds like a great way to celebrate Betsy. Yay!
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Thank you, friend!!
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Your birthday celebration turned out to be lots of fun and filled with surprises. Love the ice-cream-truck treat 🙂
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Thanks, Rosaliene. The truck really made my day. 🙂
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Uh oh, tried the Acai huh? One step closer to the Gracie cult lol! 😉 I heard if you eat it before BJJ, in the vicinity of a Gracie Academy, your skill level increases and you get promoted quicker. Worth a shot. lol
Seriously though, Happy B-day fellow person-born-in-the-season-of Virgo!
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Lololol! You crack me up, Tom!
Also, OMG! I knew we were the same age when in a podcast you said you were something-something and a half! How many days apart were we born?
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Only 3. 9/13
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Nice! We’re practically twins! (Though I now hate knowing that I am officially older than you.)
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😂😂
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But that’s okay. The magical acai berry is both an instiller of BJJ skill as well as a fountain of youth. 😉
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😂 indeed it is!
I went to BJJ on my birthday, had a nice handful of intense birthday rolls 😂
Finally got around to publishing a new podcast. Interviewed my newly minted blue belt fiancé. Let me know what you think when you have time!
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I got to go to JJ on my b-day too! I wanted to let them know it was my birthday, but the opportunity didn’t arise. Probably just as well. They may have some weird hazing ritual where I would’ve been pummeled.
With acai berries.
I saw your new post! I read maybe three paragraphs before I ran out of time a couple nights ago, but I fully 100% intend to finish. Congrats to her! That’s so exciting!
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You definitely would have been pelted with Acai berries, for sure.
I just have the intro written out on the post with a link to the podcast. Dirty Purple Belt bait and switch lol
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Ugh, you punk! Okay! Will read/listen when I can! 🙂
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😂🤣
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In all honesty, I was going to publish the full thing in two parts on the blog, too, but there was so much dialogue that I didn’t want to transcribe it all 😂
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Oh, undoubtedly that would be a pain. I know there’s software that does the transcription for you, though I don’t know what it’s called. I’ve had the delightful task, for my work, of cleaning up transcriptions a few times. There are plenty of mistakes, but it still beats writing it all from scratch.
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And the guy gave you a full-sized Magnum Bar?
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Well, I’m not sure how large they’re supposed to be, as I’ve never gotten one before, but it struck me as kind of small. No idea if they’re smaller than when you buy them from a store. But, hey, it was delicious and the price was right! 🙂
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😁
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Maybe your shoe fell apart out of fear that you were going to a jiu-jitsu class and might kick someone while still wearing them.
and of course you drink Rockstar. What else would a rockstar drink?
Next year you should have your birthday party in the jiu-jitsu studio and hire an ice-cream truck to cater it (make sure they bring a supply of Chex Mix and Rockstar drinks). Anyone not having a good time gets thrown out – no actually, bodily thrown out. Could be fun …
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I will do all that you suggest, Andrew, but only if you promise to come to the party!
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Okay!
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🙂
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I can’t believe that you’ve never had an ice cream from a truck before. It was a big part of my childhood. They still come around here now and then and, while I no longer partake, that jingly tune brings back fond memories. Açaí bowls are still on my bucket list. I see them advertised but have never had one. Good to know they are yummy.
Happy birthday!
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I grew up in the middle of nowhere. I think I only knew of ice cream trucks from tv and movies. Not sure I saw one in real life until moving here as an adult.
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Oh, and thank you for the happy birthday!
Also, if you like fruit and coconut (though you can probably have put on top whatever you want), the bowl is definitely yummy. The acai on its own would be too much. The other flavors help balance it.
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I’m definitely going to try one soon.
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Let me know what you think!
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Thanks for the follow, Betsy 🙂
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No problem! 🙂
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First, happy birthday! Second, I am so glad you didn’t post a picture of your injured toe. 🙂 Birch trees are my favorite and my husband painted a scene of birch trees for me. Love the idea of the cards from your kids. And yes, you are never too old to act like a kid.
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Ooooh, I’d love to see your husband’s painting. Is it on your blog somewhere already?
And thanks!
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“Top this next year?” There’s no topping this. You had an ice cream truck for your birthday!
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You’re so right, Bill. It was a dumb question. 🙂
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I wasn’t thinking of it as a dumb question, just that you’ve achieved peak birthday celebration. 🙂
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Well, now that just makes me a little depressed. All future birthdays will be lame in comparison. Gee, thanks, BILL! 😉 😉 (I’m kidding!)
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Since apparently I’m making a meal of my feet, I’m just going to stop here. LOL
(Spoiler alert: More on this tomorrow morning.)
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“making a meal of my feet”–That’s an excellent expression!
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When you’ve had as much practice as I have, you come up with new ways of saying that you put your foot in your mouth! LOL
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Love it. 🙂
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Dang, way to put the Band in the distant past! But sorry, there’s no topping this one next year. The doughnut card is like a dozen for the price of one. The favorite paint samples card set is a little jaw-dropping to the rest of us dads. And the ice cream truck wrap-it-up story “takes the cake”. Which begs the question, was there birthday cake anywhere in the celebration?
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I seriously had to think about this for a moment… Was there cake? I’m abnormal in that I don’t care about cake so long as there’s ice cream. There was brownie with marshmallows put in the batter to make the brownies extra soft, gooey, and delicious! So, yes, that was my “cake.” It was really good. Sorry I didn’t think to include a mention of it! Well spotted, Dave. 🙂
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Yeah, I’m pretty much all about the cake when it comes to birthdays. Everything else about the celebration is secondary.
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Do you ever watch Jimmy Fallon’s tweet contests? Maybe this response was for the hashtag “My weird thing.” Someone wrote: I keep a fork in my purse at all times just in case cake happens.
Ha! Was that your wife, holding the fork there for you?
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What a beautiful day!Happy Birthday, Betsy💐💐💐
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Thank you, June! 🙂
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Sounds like you had an amazing birthday!!
Here’s what I learned about you from this post LOL
1. You really hurt your feet a lot,
2. You love Rockstars and ChexMix (I’ve never tried either),
3. You love puns (this I knew already, to be fair),
4. You must really love donuts LOL,
5. It’s never above you to go the extra mile for your blog (even if it means rummaging through the trash for a photo-op of broken shoes lol) – SAME, GIrl! LOL
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Not that I want to contradict you, but I should probably not misrepresent myself, so
1. Yeah, kinda. I even bent my big toe backward recently when it got caught in my pant leg. Sigh.
2. Love is too strong a word. I enjoy them on occasion like guilty pleasures.
3. Yeppers! 🙂
4. I don’t love donuts, but I do like them. I like puns more. 🙂
5. Same as 3. 😛
That was a fun game. 🙂
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Thoughtful, homemade gifts; free ice cream; AND a visit from Senor Fluffy Pants?! That sounds like a pretty badassed birthday. (And you even stayed in character by getting a foot injury!) Well done!
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Lol to that last part. Thanks, Mike! 🙂 (No capybaras, though. Next year!)
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#CapyGoals
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Lol! aka #TheBestGoals
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Hey Betsy! You have such an eventful life! Glad you finally had a birthday celebration – so sorry about your shoes 🙂
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Thanks, Barb! And I don’t actually feel sorry for the shoes. They were somewhat torturous.
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Happy Birthday!! I’m just surprised you were able to run down the ice cream truck–must be all those jiu jitsu skills
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Haha! I was lucky it stopped for a bunch of little girls. 😛
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I read your birthday shenanigans with great interest – but it has taken me this long to post a comment (distractions distractions!!!)
Guess no post would be complete without a busted something or other – but really, at your birthday party too? I will never feel sorry for myself when I stub a toe or catch a finger ever again! And a busted sandal to boot?
Your friends and family certainly know & gifted you well – quirky, unusual, personal, fabulous! You certainly are surrounded by creative & loving folks! Happy happy! My favourite gift (not that you asked) is Hubby’s beautiful & meaningly love art. My heart overflows to bask in the joy!
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That comment was certainly worth the wait, Ju-Lyn! Thank you for all of that. It made my heart smile. ❤ 🙂
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