You may have noticed that I’ve had fewer Jiu-Jitsu stories to share lately. I suppose my getting better at it is to blame for my lack of entertainment for you.
We all knew it was bound to happen eventually. Probably for most people, it would’ve happened months ago.
However, I did majorly screw up recently. (Let’s pretend I did it just for you.)
I was partnered with Instructor’s youngest brother, Surfer Dude 2. The last portion of class is Mount Drills, where you try to throw the other person off. I had already successfully thrown SD2 once within the 60 second allotment and was prepared to do so again with a cool new move I learned from a Jiu-Jitsu video, not from class.
Suddenly, I became aware of Instructor, SD1, and another upper belt standing there cheering me on.
I had SD2 locked up and ready to roll left, yet I kept attempting to roll him to the right. In that direction, he wasn’t going anywhere.
“Toward me, Betsy. Roll toward me,” came Instructor’s voice, yet I kept pushing the wrong way. Finally, I gave up and heard a collective, disappointed chorus of, “Ohhh,” from the bystanders. One lamented, “It was all set up,” before they walked away.
I was mortified. What the heck happened?! For the rest of the day, I couldn’t let it go. Several times, I asked Hubby to assure me that they’d forgotten the whole incident. (He dutifully complied.) The next day I dropped a fork or something, and he said, “Did that happen because you rolled the wrong way?” which, though funny, brought the memory of the embarrassment crashing down again.
My next class was a week later. I brought my youngest daughter with me for a trial class. It was an unusually small turnout, with only three other students. So, when Instructor needed a demo partner, he chose the most senior student there, which happened to be me.
I gave a delighted little hop skip away from the wall when he called me up. (Obviously, I was super professional and kept my cool.)
I was also, of course, nervous. He did the move on me from every angle; then it was my turn to demonstrate on him. Amazingly, despite my worry, I did the moves without having to think about them.
Thank goodness it was an easy class!
When we were done, he said, “Thank you, that was perfect.”
Redemption!
On the way home, I asked my daughter if it seemed like I knew what I was doing or if I looked awkward up there. She didn’t notice anything weird, so I’ll take that as confirmation of success. She would have, no doubt, told me if I had been lame. Also, she had a blast and wants to come to the next class too.
Now the other happy things:
And finally…
And now an FYI: I’m thinking of overhauling my blog with a new name, URL, and pseudonym for myself. Mark will be happy to know I’m changing the blog name; HOWEVER, it won’t be to “Chex and Balances.” Also, I’m so not techy. Not entirely sure what I’m doing, so I hope I don’t lose my blog and all of you in the process. Stay tuned. Or not, I guess, if I happen to blow up the internet…
Questions: Do you think the Upper Belts forgot my disaster for real? Which picture did you like best?
Enjoy your week! 🙂
1. No, the senior belts went home and wrote about your fiasco on their blogs. 🙂
2. Your husband is da’ best.
3. I bought my mom some different colored carrots but she never let me know about the flavor.
4. For real though the senior belts only pay attention to the ‘mistakes’ because they are opportunities to teach. 🙂
5. You’re my favorite today. ❤
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Wouldn’t it be wild if I were to find out one of them had a blog where they wrote about the students’ mistakes? I would no doubt see myself featured there often. I wonder what my nickname would be! Probably simply, The Girl.
Not pictured with that batch of carrots were the red ones. Those were so soft and flavorful.
You’re my favorite often. 🙂
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I think I need to try those different flavored carrots.
You are more than The Girl. I wonder what other readers would put in between THE and GIRL?????
❤️❤️❤️
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The carrots are fun, for sure.
The Cares Too Much About What Others Think Of Her Girl?? 🙂
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PERFECT!
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Hahaha. 🙂
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All the pictures are great! How thoughtful of your hubby to have hair ties on the wrist–and trips to the zoo are my favorite. Cheers!
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Thanks, Cecilia. 🙂
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Love the picture of your hubby’s wrist. That there is true love. When I first saw the picture of the big flower at the zoo, I thought it might be a corpse flower… but then you said it smelled good. Beautiful picture of the trees in the mist.
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Ew, a corpse flower. I guess, by what you said about the smell, it gets its name from smelling like death? Yikes. It would have been unwise for the zoo to house those. :O
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One opened recently at the San Diego Botanical Garden and people were lined up for days to see/smell/photograph it. I understand they small like rotten meat.
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Gross! But also, fascinating! 😛
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I love how you put together the carrots with the rabbit! Great pictures and a very thoughtful hubby.
As for redemption – love that you got it. There are no teachable moments without someone doing it wrong (or at least less right) and so you benefitted the class. In fact, it was like you were teaching them something important in that moment you couldn’t roll left. 🙂
Love that your youngest daughter loves JJ and is going back! Yay!
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Such a nice sentiment about the teachable moment. Sadly, no one witnessed it who needed that lesson. When it was SD2’s turn, he demonstrated how I was supposed to have done it. Yeah, I KNOW, Buddy!!! Haha.
Now I have two daughters who want to go back, and one who wants to do a trial class too. Hubby said, “I might have to get another job to pay for this.” I may have created little Jiu-Jitsu monsters.
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Best kind of monsters around! 🙂
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Ha! Thanks. 🙂
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Well, those of us who are perfect at what we do, really do anything to laugh at. At least not while others are watching …
Just leave some bread crumbs and we’ll follow you anywhere. Okay, almost anywhere.
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That’s very sweet, Andrew. Thanks, BBB. 🙂
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Fun post
And the best thing is the hair ties!
Oh how sweet
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And a while back I took a “centergy” class (yoga Pilates movement to music)
And this lady after the class shared that she was miserable without a hair tie –
We all told her we had some in our bags (kind of funny) but we never noticed her long hair all getting in the way – we thought she chose that
😆
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Oh man. I can imagine how not fun that would have been with no hair tie. When I do martial arts, I would be miserable if my hair was down. So hot and uncomfortable, not to mention getting in the way. She should keep one around her wrist at all times, just in case she needs it. 🙂
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I agree – keep one on the wrist or even attached to the yoga strap?
I felt bad because so many of us had one to offer her!
And one more hair tie stories
Did an overnight hike with hubs to Mt Pleasant (good name- eh)
And just so happened to have TWO hair ties (not sure how it happened but must have been just on auto pilot like your hubs)
Anyhow / my husband’s earth runner show broke – the earth runner has that but if copper in the bottom to “ground” the body and are very primal – anyhow / the strap broke (because they were work a lot and the terrain was tougher than he planned for) and he used my back up hair tie around his toes and the sandal to make it down
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Hey! Great story of a hair tie to the rescue! I love it. 🙂 And, I hope that mountain lived us to its name.
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It really did live up to its name and now I am sorta into hiking – was not my thing until very recently and now I want to do it a little
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I think hiking is great. Anything in nature is so good for the soul. Add exercise to it, and it’s good for the body too. 🙂
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☀️😊🙏
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yay, to the power of redemption, warrior! and lots of good things came your way. great pre-plnnin on your husband’s part with the hair-ties
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Hubby and I joke about how bad we are at pre-planning, so this was especially impressive. 🙂
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I’d bet they’ve all done something like that and will be relieved that a superstar like you did too!
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That’s very kind, Jacqui. I think any trickle of thought of superstar status for me disappeared after that moment, however. But dang if having to be Instructor’s demo partner and him telling me I did well sure helped!
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Yay! I know that feeling of humility… All’s good.
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Thanks, Jac. 🙂
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Your husband is a keeper!
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Yep! Such a simple gesture, but beyond thoughtful!
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The comment your husband made when you dropped the fork was perfect. Got a laugh out of me. And yes, they’ve forgotten. Especially after your stellar performance. And that tree picture is stunning! Wow. 😀
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Thanks, Peach. I do hope you’re right about them forgetting. Hubby is a funny guy. And, yes, those treeeeeessss…. 🙂
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The senior belts will probably forget it soon. Or they’ll laugh about it forever. Nothing for you to worry about. Anyway, I love that photo your friend sent you! That is a wallpaper worthy pic!
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Yeah, they’ve probably forgotten. And at least I achieved some redemption in the eyes of Instructor. I highly doubt he’s going to tell the others, “BTW, Betsy was my demo partner, and she did great.” 😛 But it’s okay. I’ll get over it. Eventually. 😉
That tree picture truly is divine.
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I guess it depends on how many other ‘fails’ the upper belts have witnessed. You might be low on the list, which would be a good thing! That flower smelled good??? I imagine it smelling like a skunk! Sometimes those tropical ones are the worst. I like your carrot picture. That’s awesome that you grew those. We’ve tried carrots numerous times and they look like little witches’ noses, warts and all.
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They probably have witnessed a lot of mistakes. That does make me feel better. Thanks, Bijoux. (Though I should be at the point where I’m beyond such basic mistakes, but whatever.)
The flower was amazing. I was pleasantly surprised. Thanks for being the only person to comment on the carrots. Oh, many were still knobbly and weird. I’m guessing it has to do with the hard soil getting in the way of growing “grocery store perfect,” but they tasted just fine. 🙂
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I like the photo of Surfer Dude, although I’m guessing it’s really some other Surfer Dude or he’d think you were a creeper 🙂
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Haha. Yes, I’d be a creeper. I’ve used that pic to illustrate Surfer Dude on this blog before. I guess I neglected to source it in the caption this time. 😛
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When do you start teaching Betsy? 😉 Loved the carrots, I’ve never seen any like that but carrots never grew here so we stopped trying. Definitely the hair band picture of your husband for my favorite picture but the others were great too.
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The carrots were neat in that they had different flavors and textures. (Red were soft, white were hard, and varied in between with the orange and yellow.) Hubby was awfully thoughtful with those hair bands. 🙂
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I’m all in favor of a blog name change even if it isn’t mine. I just changed my URL and people were still directed to my blog. In fact, I doubt anybody even noticed. You shouldn’t have any issues, non-techness aside.
Your husband put hair ties around his wrist? Sure, that’s thoughtful. But did he plaster a Betsy tattoo on his arm, take you to work with him, and then blog about the experience? Nope!
Love that last photo, and yes, I’ll be clicking on the link.
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Apparently I have to upgrade to a plan to change my URL. I changed the blog name, FWIW. But I’m not sure it’s worth much if the URL doesn’t match.
Hubby doesn’t have a blog, but he could probably figure out how to affix the tattoo properly. (Burn!) My birthday is coming up. Those tattoos may make a re-appearance.
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You can purchase your own domain for $20 or less these days and transfer to WordPress. I’m pretty sure I did that even with the free plan? Don’t quote me on that, though.
I’ve never had a trickier time getting a fake tattoo to stay on! But I managed.
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Lol you’re doomed to be remembered as ‘The One Who Rolled The Wrong Way’, so your only recourse now is to continue down this path until you can one day remember a lower belt for doing the same thing.
And I don’t know how something that looked like that (lungs) can smell like heaven. What a super weird flower! How did it smell like, exactly?
Anyway, thanks for this post!
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That first part is not exactly making me feel better, Stuart!!! 😛 You’re supposed to tell me they’ve long forgotten about it!!! 🙂
I wish I could remember what the flower smelled like now. My only memory is the impression that it smelled…. floral. Yep, I’m a writer. I know. Real descriptive.
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You surely have the best hubby in the world.❤️
If not the hair tie?
The zoo experience was awesome ❤️
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Yeah, he’s a pretty decent dude. 😉 Thanks, Francochuks.
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You are welcome ❤️
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My thoughts are that you weren’t the first to do that so it was more of a relief than anything for others to see 🙂
I have been thinking of overhauling my blog too but I am so not techy and for sure the world would end and I would lose all my progress and following LOL.. so I am scared and therefore not doing it until i see you do it LOL .. the last picture IS breathtaking! But also I love the bunny and tri-colour carrots 🙂
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Welp, I was able to change the name of the blog easily enough. But to change the URL requires a paid upgrade, and I’m allergic to spending money unless I really need to. Therefore, at a bit of a standstill. On the plus side, the internet being exploded has been postponed as a result of my cheapness. 😉
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hahaha me too… I am allergic to my husband getting mad at me for spending money lol
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Hahaha!
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Amazing that another team member will be joining you on the mat!
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Yes! bridge under the water! or they will always think of you as the Little Engine That Could (just maybe not that day)
Your husband is so very thoughtful and experienced! ❤️❤️❤️
Love the bounty from your garden: different colored/flavored carrots are so fun! We sometimes get yellows & purples from our ugly grocer and really enjoy them too!
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Thank you, Ju-Lyn. 🙂 And, oooh, purple carrots. Neat! Your ugly grocer is the best.
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