
A man in a parking lot complimented Hubby on this t-shirt. I stepped back out of the car to say, “I got him that shirt!”
The man looked at Hubby and said, “Hold her close.”




Also, the banner in the background is the perennial “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom” banner that lives in my nightstand, of all places, the rest of the year.
And now, some sad news. The grocery store where I met the blog-famous Chex Mix Guy is closing. There was a big Closing Sale, so I checked it out two days after the sale began. It was depressing as all get out.


My heart was kind of breaking. I made the most of it by buying a bunch of stuff. I was doing my part to help them clear out, I guess.

The CMG messaged me in advance to break the news, which was nice. It would’ve been harder to bear without the warning. I got to bid farewell to my favorite checker. She was the one who seemed extra kind to me the night I stopped in after Jiu-Jitsu, my hair an absolute mess and eyeliner smeared around my face. When I got home, I understood why she was being so nice.
There was another checker I’d become friendly with. I considered backtracking to say goodbye to her, too, but then thought, “Eh, she probably doesn’t care.” Now I regret that.
I did learn that the employees are being reassigned to new stores, so that’s good news, at least. They’re not simply losing their jobs.
And since CMG was nice enough to reach out, I had the opportunity to ask who at his new store called him E-Dog. If your money was on the produce guy, you win! 🙂 CMG said he was confused at first, but, given that he’d seen me in the store earlier, he quickly put it together.
Which pic do you like the most? Have any random pics on your phone currently?
I cherish the dragon fruit photo.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you, John. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Cool about the T-shirt. Sad about the store. I hope it’s closing for one of the good reasons.
LikeLike
I don’t believe closing due to not enough foot traffic is one of the good reasons. I’m curious to know what conveniently located establishment will go up in its place. I hope it will be something I like!
LikeLike
Excellent T-shirt, for reasons having nothing to do with Starwars. Though a native westerner, I’ve lived in California the same amount of time as you and still have yet to ever see a dragonfruit with my own eyes. I, too, love sage green – what a lovely woman to be so sweet to you. Finally, have you ever met a cool car that you weren’t interested in photographing? 😉
LikeLiked by 2 people
Oh, AT, you are so delightful! Honored that you read this. How did I not know you also love sage green? This grocery store has all sorts of interesting things, like giant cactus leaves, and other foods I’ve never heard of and that look questionably edible. And I very much laughed out loud at the car comment. How do you always seem to land upon my posts that involve cars? Heehee.
LikeLike
That’s sad about the store. Perhaps the rent was raised? Love the classic red truck!
LikeLiked by 1 person
CMG said there wasn’t enough foot traffic. I could see that. I’m very sad. It was such a convenient location.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Hey now! I’ll have you know I can buy dragonfruit at Heinen’s. And I know my daughter can find it in Medina County because she served me some last month. Of course, it’s very pricey! And without flavor.
Empty grocery store shelves trigger me. In the height of the pandemic, I remember being freaked out that the shelves were empty. I hope you have other good shopping options near you. Like a Trader Joe’s!
LikeLiked by 2 people
No flavor? What’s the point then? It looks so exotic. I don’t know why I didn’t buy one. Maybe next time, just so I can try it.
A Trader Joe’s right there would be pretty cool. I hope Mark sees this comment. Oooh, would he be jealous! It’s like a 5-minute drive there.
Sorry about the trigger. Now that you mention it, yes. That is very pandemicy, but I never saw stores that bad in 2020.
LikeLike
So sad when stores We like close
–
There is that life cycle feeling to it – businesses have births – growth – maturity – decline – and death”
And I once learned that what happens during maturity is key – because once decline starts it is too late – if that makes sense
–
The sage green wrap is awesome and fits well – also has that love feeling with it because it was a gift
LikeLiked by 1 person
So true, PH. And I look forward to an opportunity to wear the warm, cuddly wrap. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
That sage green is one of my colors – you know how they do the charts for colors that go better with your eyes and skin tone?
Well earth tones came up for me with muted greens, maroon – and browns
But not orange – not blues etc –
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’m told red and purple look good on me. My fave color is blue, but it doesn’t work well on me, sadly. I do like earth tones, though, too.
LikeLiked by 1 person
It took me a
Long time to accept that I could not wear certain colors and prints – partly because of how I feel
In them – even if someone said they were my color – if we don’t feel the vibe then off it goes – —
Like most of the orange colored items I tried would get tossed or donated –
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yep, I hear ya, PH.
LikeLiked by 1 person
And I guess the JJ outfit is nice and neutral – and then the color of stripes might impact your swagger at times (hahahaha jj)
LikeLiked by 1 person
Haha. Not many can see my swagger. The only ones who did were at the store on my way home–the store that is now closed. 😦
(But I didn’t wear the gi top or belt inside the store. Maybe I should have to give a better explanation for my appearance. Ha!)
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh I still smile at how the make up was like that and the store clerk seeing it
A while back- I tried a cheap mascara and went to church (I don’t go all the time because I feel like we are the church and we bring the sanctuary with us – ) anyhow – long morning there and I was wearing a fun little art t-shirt with lines and shapes and slick black pants – felt kind of simple and I was so comfy!
Chatted with so many folks and then in the car – I looked in the mirror and had raccoon eyes
What?
The cheap mascara had not held up even a few hours and Betsy- why would nobody say anything? Did they think I was going for the smoky look?
Omg
And I asked my hubs why he didn’t say anything and he said it was dark where were chatting (and it was)
But two lessons learned
1) toss the cheap mascara and don’t cut corners there if you are going to wear that crap – lol
And
2) always double check your face
Hahaha
Anyhow
Sorry about your store closing
LikeLiked by 1 person
Let’s hope your hubby was right about it being too dark for people to really notice. Maybe, if they did, they thought it looked good? Definitely toss the cheap stuff. And I totally should’ve checked the mirror before I went into the store.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Well it want that bad – and some women wear such dark eyeliner it might have looked like that!
Wishing you a great day!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
And to you, PH!
LikeLiked by 1 person
No, don’t panic – I did a check and if you really, really need it, you can order Chex Mix on-line. I saw one ad where you could buy the stuff by the case.
Hopefully a new store will open soon that has both high quality tee-shirts and Chex Mix that is always on sale for 1/2 price.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I was sad there were no bags of CM on the shelf still. Those were probably the first to go. THAT’S where the elbows were thrown, I’m sure.
A shirt with good tees and 1/2 price CM sounds like a dream, Andrew.
LikeLiked by 1 person
That is kind of sad that a grocery store is closing. Weird happenings with the weather, the economy, shortages, and now grocery store closings. It feels ominous, Betsy. I need a fun post next time, Betsy. More Ju-Jitsu jokes and maybe a beauty-bruise. And Nice Wrap! That made me smile. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Fun post next time–you got it, Peach! JJ jokes and a “beauty bruise.” Ha!
Yes, let’s focus on the fuzzy green wrap. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
😀
LikeLiked by 1 person
We can buy dragon fruit here but I never have since I figured the taste wouldn’t live up to the dragon fruit I had in Hawaii. I do love the looks of the inside (white with tiny black specks), though. It is so nice of that women to give you her wrap! I like sage green as a color but it doesn’t like me if I wear it. I’m voting for a TJs.
LikeLiked by 2 people
A TJ’s would be welcome. That’s my neighbor’s fave store–where we would go together on the same trip as where we last saw the CMG. Bit of drive to get there, so one closer would be great!
I may have to buy some dragon fruit next time.
LikeLike
There is so much fodder here! Wow – $200 off groceries. Holy smokes! And the empty aisles are so sad but I’m glad you found the workers are being reassigned. At least there’s that.
A Happy Mother’s Day year-round banner, a beautiful green wrap, Star wars t-shirts and more. I’m wonder if an alternative title could be “Miscellaneous pictures and a tragic sale!” 😦
LikeLiked by 1 person
Tragic sale–yep, that would’ve been better. Sigh. But for real on my savings. When I did the math on my receipt (not everything was labeled, so I didn’t really know how much it would cost), I was tempted to go back for more cheap pasta and k-cups. But, better for others to get their chance, too.
LikeLiked by 1 person
That’s so considerate of you!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yeah, I guess. Lol. 😉
LikeLiked by 1 person
Just updated the title of this post. I liked your title better. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Glad my riff was useful! And it is a tragic sale! ;(
LikeLiked by 1 person
True. On both.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Any store that carries chexmix and closes is a huge loss
LikeLiked by 1 person
It was a huge loss indeed. And I didn’t get there soon enough to get any discounted CM.
LikeLiked by 1 person
others are onto their magic powers )
LikeLiked by 1 person
It must be so.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Hi. Does dragon fruit taste good?
LikeLike
I don’t know. I didn’t buy it. I’ll have to next time I see it. Someone else commented that it’s mostly tasteless.
LikeLiked by 1 person
My favorite pic was the sparring gear because I love sparring gear and we haven’t sparred at krav in a WHILE. I miss it. LOVE the t-shirt, I’m a HUGE Star Wars fan. Also what a sad loss, r.i.p.
LikeLiked by 2 people
Sparring is incredibly fun. I can’t not get injured somewhere despite the gear, but still worth it! Glad you like the shirt too. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oof, same, I always get hurt somewhere
LikeLiked by 1 person
Haha. Yep. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
“I got him that shirt!” really cool🥰
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you. 🙂
LikeLike
You are welcome ❤️
LikeLiked by 1 person
🙂
LikeLike
They say it was one of the very last supermarkets to still offer a ‘flavor adventure’.
LikeLiked by 2 people
It was definitely an adventure, tref. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love your fun gracias photo and the dragon fruit photo. Have you ever eaten one of those? I wouldn’t know what to do with it!
So sorry about the store. It sounds like you managed some great buys but closings of favorite places always hurt. 😢
LikeLike
I didn’t buy the dragon fruit because of what you said: I didn’t know what to do with it!
True about the store.
Thanks.
LikeLiked by 1 person
It makes me sad when businesses close, especially those that have been part of my life for several years.
LikeLike
Oh, no! So sad to hear about the store closing, but it will live forever in your blog 🙂 I love the picture of the dragon fruit. I once took a picture of a bunch of Brussel sprouts at the store–they were so green, I just had to capture that color!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you for commiserating and enjoying the dragon fruit pic. I can imagine the lovely green Brussels sprouts!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Dragon fruit is one of my favourites! Particularly the red-flesh variety and not the white-fleshed ones. The proper ones tastes super sweet, almost as sweet as sugar, with the consistency of kiwi, almost. Hard to describe, now that I think of it. The joys of living in a tropical country!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’ll definitely have to pick one up the next time I see it at the store.
LikeLike
The picture of you of course!
When were you in Ohio? Did you live in Ohio before and I forgot that?
The Happy Mother’s Day sign is CLASSIC!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes, grew up in a small town between Cleveland and Akron. Not the sparring gear? Huh.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Nah. I know what sparring gear smells like 😂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Lol!
LikeLiked by 2 people
😉
LikeLiked by 1 person
Also, we go to Canton frequently so have probably been in ‘your neck of the woods’ quite often!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Wasn’t super close to Canton, but I’ll take it! 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Cool pics and I have wrap envy ……😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
Wrap envy—ha! 🙂🙃
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh man! I would be heart-broken … I don’t do well at all at the shutting down of favourite haunts. At least you got to help clear stock …
And the conclusion to the CMG story … excellent!!!
P/S Love the vignettes at the start of your post … and the At-At Tee (yes, he should hold you very close!), and oh my goodness! the surprise & delight of the shawl (nice!)
LikeLiked by 1 person
Ju-Lyn! Thank you so much for being excited by the conclusion of the CMG story. I was so excited to report on that, but no one else commented. I guess too many people are new or else they’d forgotten, lost interest… It was disappointing, so THANK YOU for enjoying that along with me. And the other items you kindly mentioned. Yes, very sad about my store. There could’ve at least been one lonely bag of Chex Mix hiding in the back of the bottom shelf–how perfect would that have been? Like it was just waiting for me to rescue it, but no. Of course those would’ve been snatched up in the first wave of bargain shoppers. 😉 But also 😦
LikeLike
If you had scored a bag of Chex Mix, it would really have been the ultimate conclusion to the story! Having said this, you know where CMG is now, so there could be a Season 2!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Finding a bag of CM truly would’ve been an epic conclusion, as I believe that fateful night I met CMG to buy CM was the first night I’d gone to that store. Alas, his new store is too far for me to likely go.
LikeLike
Ah… good ole Century sparring gear… that brings me back.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Ha. That’s fun, Tom. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Seriously. Good ole TKD sparring sessions as a teen. Fun times.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Fun times for sure, even if, based on my experience, they’re not the best for injury avoidance! 😛
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh they’re definitely not the best lol! From the headgear on down, especially if it’s full contact. Point sparring is optimal, but even then things happen… lol
LikeLiked by 1 person
First I jammed a finger. Minutes later, I hurt my foot. My opponent (my daughter) had basically incapacitated my left side. Haha. I kept going, though. The foot stopped hurting soon enough, but I still have issues with this finger.
LikeLiked by 1 person
NO! They can’t close ChexMix guy’s store. That is just sad. A chapter of your blogging life, gone. Love the sage green wrap. Muy bonita! As for dragon fruit, SOOOO not in Ohio anymore.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I drove past the store on my way home from class last night and the windows were boarded up. It’s so tragic. Soon the store name will be pulled down.
Ugh. Thanks for feeling me on that, AB.
LikeLiked by 1 person
The pic of you in the lovely green fuzzy smock was the best! 🙂 I laughed out loud at “hold her close.” I don’t know why that made me chuckle so hard lol… and yes, store closings always make me feel all kinds of depressed!! So glad all those workers are being transferred and not losing their jobs!
LikeLiked by 2 people
I’m relieved about the workers too. I’m glad I thought to ask. I can hardly wait for an occasion to wear the wrap. Maybe I should just wear it around the house! (If it was cold enough.) The guy’s “hold her close” comment was awfully funny. His wife/girlfriend/sister was there too. Maybe she got a clue about what to get him for his birthday. 😛
LikeLiked by 1 person
Love the pic of you with the green wrap. But this store closing limits you choice of blogs. Will miss the ChexMix guiy.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, Barb. I have to drive by the store and see it boarded up now. It’s so sad. 😦
LikeLiked by 1 person