I’d been wanting to cut my hair for a while. The words of an old college chum still haunt me when my hair gets to a certain length: “You have a long face, so when your hair is long, too, it draws your face out more and makes you look like a horse.” Sadly, it seems like my face has only gotten longer with age. So, when my hair gets long, too, I look in the mirror and frequently see Weird Al Yankovic staring back at me, only not being funny and entertaining.
So, the hair had to go. I took a shower one morning and, seeing my hair already damp and straight, decided it was time to take matters into my own hands. I grabbed the hair cutting scissors and was determined. But I hit a snag. Looking in the mirror and operating scissors, or just operating scissors when they’re turned back toward your head is harder than it looks in the movies. I was sure I’d end up cutting at a sharp angle by mistake. So, I called in my daughter.
She recently turned 10, mind you, and is therefore far more mature than she was a month earlier when not yet two full sets of fingers old. When I asked if she could help me cut my hair, she jumped at the chance, leaving her sisters and the TV saying, “I didn’t want to watch that movie anyway.”
We returned to my bathroom, and I soon realized I may have made a mistake. I watched my daughter grapple with holding the scissors. “That’s right! She’s a lefty!” I gulped but realized there was no backing out now. She was committed, so I would be, too. When she finally got her grip down, and I showed her how to use the comb to level the hair off, she had at it.
I couldn’t see what was happening in the back. I chewed my lip as I heard her muttering phrases like, “Just a little bit more right here (snip). And now just a little there. (snip).” Finally she was done, and for all I could tell, it looked pretty good. She proudly ran off to brag to her sisters about what she had done.
I’m sure you’re hoping for before and after pictures, but I’m afraid you’ll have to use your imaginations. There’s not much to say except I went from just below the shoulders to just below my chin. That, and I closely resembled a basset hound. My hair poofed out like wide, floppy dog ears, only hanging much higher up. It was awful.
My husband was quite surprised by the change when he got home, but even more so by the fact that I let our daughter do it. We returned to the bathroom so my husband could discreetly cut two chunks in the back that were hanging lower than the rest of the hair.
I told him my misgivings with the whole thing, due to the basset hound look. He said, “Did you blow dry it?”
“No, it dried on the operating table.”
Next time I’ll just be more patient and get professional help.
Addendum: Since I’ve received requests for before and after pictures, despite my assurances that you’d rather not see these, I will comply. Can’t say I didn’t warn you.
Before:
After:
so disappointed there aren’t pictures… 😉
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I considered it, but it looked too awful to share.
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See the updated post.
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Well if it’s any consolation, I used to sometimes cut my kids’ hair, with results that sound rather similar. They don’t let me any more. But why no before and after pictures huh?
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I was too ashamed.
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See the updated post.
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I agree. Where’s the pics? You can’t blog that you got a new doo and not share with some pics!!! We went to see YOU!
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Oh, my friend, this is hardly bragging. And I just added some appropriate pics to the post.
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Yeah!
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Not fair! You are definitely NOT weird Al Yankovic. Post the real pic!
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Don’t I wish I were, though? 😉
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If you’re desperate to see me, there’s a pic of me on here somewhere. I believe in the post “Mommy goes out on the town.”
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Okay, found it. https://parentingisfunny.wordpress.com/2014/02/18/mommy-goes-out-on-the-town-before-and-after-photos/
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Aw, you are beautiful! Thanks for sharing!
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Somehow I managed to get away with long hair in that photo! 😉
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Bad haircuts grow! And don’t let your college friend’s words haunt you. Plenty of women with oval/ long faces have long hair, the styling and type of long cut have a lot to do with how flattering a cut is. All the best for your next cut!
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Thank you for that. I should probably invest some money in having my hair done properly. Next time!
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So brave. I can’t imagine what my 9 year old would do!
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I believe you have boys, yes? If my oldest were a boy, no way!
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I have two boys and I don’t trust them to shower voluntarily, let alone cut my hair. Girls are so much more responsible.
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Probably true. I’m convinced that God knew I couldn’t handle boys!
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This made me laugh out loud. What a knack for humor writing you have. The Weird Al Yankovic analogy is so funny, not to mention your poof-job when it dried. How brave of you to let your 10-year-old cut your hair. You deserve mother of the year for that!
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Did you like my “dried on the operating table” pun? I was a bit proud of that one. 🙂
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Oh, yes, very funny! I was in a restaurant with my boys when I read your post earlier. Normally I wouldn’t pull my phone out, but they were talking Marvel and I was lost, so I thought, “I’ll just read this post quick.” I started laughing out loud and they thought I was weird. Of course, what else is new?…
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LOL! Of course!
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That was the line that got me to LOL.
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You have a terrifying amount of trust in your children. Mine would leave me with a mohawk. I barely trust them with nail clippers.
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In hindsight, I don’t know what I was thinking! But in truth, she did a decent job!
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What were you thinking?
Well, at least it will grow back.
Be thankful for hats.
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My husband leveled out the slightly lumpy parts. Making it not so poofy is totally on me. It’s wearable. No hat needed.
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Sometimes I let my daughters help me cut my hair. Mainly I am too cheap to pay for it.
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Is what I’m saying!
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Here, here!
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You are a brave woman to trust a 10-year-old with scissors and your hair! I’m too cowardly to try to cut my own and so pay the professionals to keep it under a semblance of control. 🙂
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She’s quite the little artist, so I figured she had to have some skill. No emergency repair job needed at the salon, so all is well! Next time I’ll just pay for it, though!
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You teased me with the before and after pictures 🙂 You are definitely brave to let your daughter cut your hair—I don’t even trust myself with cutting hair haha. I’m sure it’s nothing a trip to the hairdresser can’t fix. I have a long face too, but I can’t do short hair.
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It was all worth it. My hair doesn’t bug me anymore. And she’ll only get better with more practice! 😉
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Hindsight is 20-20, letting my 12 year old cut my hair would terrify me, not going to happen. I have a guy who cuts my hair. When I want it done I tell him and he does it for me. He had over 200 haircuts on his ex wife, former girlfriends and female friends who were extremely happy with his work before he ever touched mine, AFTER being taught by an ex-girlfriend who was a stylist who was even more anal, (I mean cocerned about detail) than he is. So I am very particular about my hair. If he was not that good, I would have to suffer the salon route. And he cooks better than me, so he does all the meals for me and my children, poor me? Ummm, no, I am lucky, and I need to lose a few pounds….
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Mind if I borrow him for an evening? You can have him back at bedtime.
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